Kalahvivādasuttaniddesa

Suttapiṭaka · Khuddakanikāya · Mahāniddesa · Vol. 29 · Section 447

[447] **Quarrels, disputes, lamentation and sorrow, together with stinginess, spring from what is dear** (piyappahūtā kalahā vivādā paridevasokā sahamaccharā): "Dear" — dear things are of two kinds: beings or formations (saṅkhārā). Which beings are dear? Here, those whom one has who desire one's good, who desire one's welfare, who desire one's comfort, who desire one's security from bondage (yogakkhema) — a mother, a father, a brother, a sister, a son, a daughter, friends, companions, relatives, or blood relations — these beings are dear. Which formations are dear? Agreeable forms, agreeable sounds, agreeable odours, agreeable tastes, agreeable tangible objects — these formations are dear. Even suspecting the seizure of the dear object, they quarrel; while it is being seized, they quarrel; when it has been seized, they quarrel. Even suspecting the alteration of the dear object, they quarrel; while it is altering, they quarrel; when it has altered, they quarrel. Even suspecting the seizure of the dear object, they dispute; while it is being seized, they dispute; when it has been seized, they dispute. Even suspecting the alteration of the dear object, they dispute; while it is altering, they dispute; when it has altered, they dispute. Even suspecting the seizure of the dear object, they lament; while it is being seized, they lament; when it has been seized, they lament. Even suspecting the alteration of the dear object, they lament; while it is altering, they lament; when it has altered, they lament. Even suspecting the seizure of the dear object, they sorrow; while it is being seized, they sorrow; when it has been seized, they sorrow. Even suspecting the alteration of the dear object, they sorrow; while it is altering, they sorrow; when it has altered, they sorrow. They guard, protect, take possession of, cherish as "mine," and are stingy over the dear object.

English translation from the Pali (Siam Raṭṭha edition) — under review, not for citation.