[476] But, bhikkhus, when a bhikkhu approaches families with a mind (citta) like this: "How could this be expected among others' families: 'Let them give to me only; may they not fail to give. Let them give me much only, not little. Let them give me only what is fine, not what is coarse. Let them give to me quickly only, not slowly. Let them give to me respectfully only, not disrespectfully'?" — then, bhikkhus, if, when that bhikkhu approaches families with such a mind, they do not give, the bhikkhu is not hurt by that; he does not on that account experience suffering (dukkha) and grief. They give little, not much: the bhikkhu is not hurt by that; he does not on that account experience suffering and grief. They give what is coarse, not what is fine … they give slowly, not quickly: the bhikkhu is not hurt by that; he does not on that account experience suffering and grief. They give disrespectfully, not respectfully: the bhikkhu is not hurt by that; he does not on that account experience suffering and grief. A bhikkhu such as this, bhikkhus, is worthy to be a frequenter of families (kulūpaka).
English translation from the Pali (Siam Raṭṭha edition) — under review, not for citation.