PārājikkaṇḍaPaṭhaṁpārājikasikkhābada

Vinayapiṭaka · Bhikkhu Vibhaṅga (1) · Vol. 1 · Section 73

[73] Now at that time in Sāvatthī there was a female lay follower (upāsikā) named Saddhā, whose faith was soft [naive]. She held this view: "She who gives sexual intercourse (methunadhamma) gives the foremost gift." Having seen a bhikkhu, she said this: "Come, venerable sir, engage in sexual intercourse." "Enough, sister; this is not allowable." "Come, venerable sir, rub between the thighs; in this way there will be no offence (āpatti) for you." That bhikkhu did so. He was remorseful. … "Bhikkhu, there is no offence of pārājika; there is an offence of saṅghādisesa."

English translation from the Pali (Siam Raṭṭha edition) — under review, not for citation.

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