PārājikakaṇḍaPaṭhamapārājikasikkhāpada

Vinayapiṭaka · Bhikkhu Vibhaṅga (1) · Vol. 1 · Section 74

[74] Now at that time, in Sāvatthī, there was a laywoman (upāsikā) named Saddhā whose faith was tender. She held this view: "She who gives sexual intercourse (methunadhamma) gives the foremost gift." Seeing a bhikkhu, she said this: "Come, venerable sir, engage in sexual intercourse." "Enough, sister; this is not allowable." "Come, venerable sir, rub against my navel" … "Come, venerable sir, rub against the fold of my belly" … "Come, venerable sir, rub against my armpit" … "Come, venerable sir, rub against my neck" … "Come, venerable sir, rub against the opening of my ear" … "Come, venerable sir, rub against the coil of my hair" … "Come, venerable sir, rub between my fingers" … "Come, venerable sir, I shall make an effort with my hand and cause the emission; in this way there will be no offense (āpatti) for you." That bhikkhu did so. He was remorseful … "Bhikkhu, there is no offense entailing pārājika; there is an offense entailing saṅghādisesa."

English translation from the Pali (Siam Raṭṭha edition) — under review, not for citation.

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